How to Be a Good Girlfriend

Getting a boyfriend is a great feeling for any girl. Keeping him and treating him right will ensure that your relationship stays on track. Being a good girlfriend is great for your boyfriend and your relationship. An added bonus is if you treat him right he is more than likely to return the favor and you will both be walking on cloud nine.

Tips for Being a Good Girlfriend

Here are a few creative tips for being a good girlfriend.

Be Romantic: A guy loves nothing more than his girlfriend to surprise him with a romantic gesture. Traditionally it was the mans job to be romantic but times have definitely changed in that respect. Treat your boyfriend to a romantic surprise such as a mini break, romantic meal or love poem. Your romantic gesture isn’t measured by the money spent, it is measured by the thought and effort made. Your boyfriend will really appreciate it if you go the extra mile and really think outside the box with your romantic gesture.

Be Honest: Trust and relationships are built on honesty. Lying to your boyfriend is only going to cause problems in the long run. Making small lies that you feel aren’t a big deal can end up causing long term issues between you as he might question other things you have said to him. Be honest with him and remember, it only takes one lie to ruin a relationship and to lose all that trust you have spent months to develop. Even if you have done something you regret, telling him is far better than him finding out on his own.

Show an interest in him: Men and Women are very different from one another. You won’t be interested in everything he is interested in but at least try to understand why it matters to him. By showing you care about these things he cares about you will build trust and respect. A relationship where neither party make an effort to understand the things that matter to the other, is one that is doomed to fail.


Be Sexy: Men are attracted to sexy women who aren’t afraid to seduce them. You don’t constantly have to act sexy but doing it every now and then will keep your man extremely interested. Men love a sexy, confident, powerful woman who isn’t afraid to get what they want. If you demonstrate these qualities every now and then you will have him gagging for more.

Keep it slow: There is nothing worse than someone who wants too much too soon. When you are first getting to know your boyfriend just hold back a little. If you try and move things too fast you might scare him off. Even if you want to make a huge gesture, it’s best just to hold back at the beginning. Gradually let him know how you feel and see what he offers in return. Hopefully he will feel the same and eventually you can show him exactly what he means to you.

Keep strong communication: To build a relationship you need to communicate regularly. This may sound obvious but many couples fail to do this. Communicating means you need to listen to what is going on with your partner. Pay attention to his needs, worries and passions. By communicating with him you can talk over any concerns he might have before they develop into something insurmountable. Letting these concerns bottle up will achieve nothing other than destroy your relationship in the long run.

Being reliable: While small surprises are always good in a relationship, the majority of people will want to be with someone who is reliable. This means that you shouldn’t be constantly cancelling dates or commitments you have made with your partner. Your boyfriend should be able to rely on you to be there for him when he needs you. This builds up trust and makes your much more special in his eyes.

Don’t Nag Him: One of the worst stereotypes of a woman is the nagger. Make sure you don’t fall into this category. If you have any issues bring them up without making him feel like you are being overly negative. If he continues to irritate you then bring it up again but still without nagging. Always keep a positive attitude when talking to your boyfriend. If he decides to keep doing what you have brought up then you need to decide whether or not this is a big problem for you. If it is you might want to pick a fight to try and rectify the situation. Whatever you do don’t continuously go on about the same thing over and over. Give him a chance to address the issue and if he doesn’t then be honest about how unhappy you are about it.

Be Yourself: A boyfriend wants to fall in love with the real you. It can sometimes be hard to be yourself with your boyfriend straight away so ease into it slowly. If he doesn’t like what he sees that is his problem. Your boyfriend should love you for who you are and not what he wants you to be. Everyone puts up a front when they first meet someone and it may take time before you feel comfortable enough to show your true colours. However, eventually this will come and, if not, then it is probably not a relationship with any real future. Don’t feel like you have to change to suit his needs. If he feels you are being yourself around him, you will probably also get to know the real him.


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Getting a boyfriend is a great feeling for any girl. Keeping him and treating him right will ensure that your relationship stays on track. Being a good girlfriend is great for your boyfriend and your relationship. An added bonus is if you treat him right he is more than likely to return the favour and you will both be walking on cloud nine.

Tips for Being a Good Girlfriend

Here are a few creative tips for being a good girlfriend.
- See more at: http://www.lifeguides.net/relationships/good-girlfriend/#sthash.hGMJ7fd7.dpuf

Getting a boyfriend is a great feeling for any girl. Keeping him and treating him right will ensure that your relationship stays on track. Being a good girlfriend is great for your boyfriend and your relationship. An added bonus is if you treat him right he is more than likely to return the favour and you will both be walking on cloud nine.

Tips for Being a Good Girlfriend

Here are a few creative tips for being a good girlfriend.
- See more at: http://www.lifeguides.net/relationships/good-girlfriend/#sthash.hGMJ7fd7.dpuf

101 Amazing Things to Do with Your Husband

Doing something with husband is really so loving and fun, I always enjoy to do anything with him. I have complied a list of 101 things to do with your husband. Not all of them apply to me and my husband, but as I got going… I couldn’t stop! I had to much fun creating 101 Things to do with your Husband!

So – without further adieu… 
 Before you read,

Ask yourself; Do I really Love my Husband?

1. Bike ride – around the block or out and about! 
2. Cook together – each taking turns with parts of the recipe
3. Go to the gym together – I love looking at Matt across the gym, something very comforting about it
4. Playing croquet – one of my all-time favorite games to play in the backyard
5. Match socks together – believe it or not, this can be nice to just sit and chat while doing this mindless chore. 
6. Plant a garden – my husband’s favorite and dream
7. Go see a play at a local theatre
8. Paint a room in your house that you’ve been meaning to re-do
9. Shopping for something new for you and for him
10. Scrabble
11. Head to a vineyard
12. Long walk around the block – even with the kids
13. Picnic on the beach
14. When the kids are in bed, steal the Wii
15. A game of tennis
16. Put together a puzzle
17. Read a book together – I know… I know… but it can be romantic
18. Put together photo albums of your family
19. Sit outside and watch the sunset
20. Cooking class together
21. Yoga
22. Head to a coffeeshop and chill out
23. Day trip to a special location nearby – for us it would be Newport or Cape Cod
24. Find a band you both like and see if they’re playing anytime soon or nearby. If not, head to a local bar who plays music.
25. Dancing lessons
26. Baseball game together – Major or Minor league
27. Check out a local brewery
28. Bowling!
29. House hunting
30. Head to the zoo (you don’t always have to be with the kids!)
31. Fishing – something my husband loves trying to get me to do
32. Canoe ride
33. Roller blading – we used to do this all the time!
34. Create a vegetable garden – something we just did at our home
35. Learn how to play Call of Duty on XBOX
36. Couple massages
37. Run a 5K, 10K, 1/2 marathon, marathon together
38. Volunteer together somewhere special
39. Create videos for your blog together – if you’re a blogger! 
40. Whale watching
41. Mini golfing
42. Real golfing
43. Play basketball together (or teach her how to play)
44. Head to the beach and collect sea glass or shells
45. Monopoly
46. Recreate your very first date
47. Dance in the kitchen when the kids are in bed
48. Head to a flea market
49. Sit by the fire
50. Go camping (Matt would have to pay me)
51. Learn to play an instrument together
52. Play frisbee
53. Redo your bedroom together – new sheets, new arrangement of furniture, hang photos, etc
54. When it’s raining, run outside and kiss in the rain!
55. Free movies in the park
56. Walk around the mall hand in hand
57. Have a fondue night
58. Kayaking
59. Make chocolate chip cookies from scratch together
60. Head to the batting cages
61. Go-cart racing!
62. Head out on a boat ride
63. Head to a car dealer and test drive cars you’ve been dying to check out for you and your family
64. Strawberry/Blueberry/Apple picking – depending on the season
65. Movie night outside on an old school projector
66. Sit and watch your wedding video together
67. Make a family tree
68. Spend the night at a local B&B
69. Go hiking
70. Head to a local museum
71. Fitness class together
72. Make your own sundaes
73. Go ice skating
74. Find a place where you can do a dinner boat or a dinner train!
75. Make your own sushi
76. Lay in your backyard and look up at the stars
77. Go horseback riding
78. Find a local art exhibit
79. Swim in the ocean
80. If you have a hot tub, jump in!
81. Head to an amusement park
82. Go zip-lining!
83. Create something for your kids and surprise them – blanket fort, pillow fortress, LEGO cave, etc!
84. Make a cake
85. Dress up all fancy and head out to dinner, it doesn’t matter if it’s just for the fun of it
86. Create a vision board of goals and dreams you both have for your lives ahead
87. Clean out and organize the garage, your basement or your attic
88. Go to church together
89. Make breakfast and eat it in bed
90. Plant a tree
91. Create a special space outdoors for the summer
92. Go to a planetarium
93. Watch a fireworks display
94. Take a bubble bath together
95. Create a scavenger hunt for each other of clues that only the 2 of you would know and understand
96. Visit a local animal shelter if you’re looking to adopt a new pet
97. Take a karate class
98. Whitewater rafting
99. Head to the casino
100. Make breakfast together in the morning 
101. Head to a water park

 So enjoy the happy married life!
Stay Loving!!

Regards
Cattelya Angel

11 Things Happy Couples Never Do

Keep these helpful tips in mind over the Holidays and make your relationship even stronger!

11 Things Happy Couples Never Do

Happy and healthy relationships require a lot of constant work from both sides. We are going to focus on the 11 things people in happy and healthy relationships never do.

They Don’t Take Each Other For Granted

 

People in healthy and happy relationships know not to take each other for granted, they know how to cherish each other and how to make each other happy.

They Don't Ignore Their Struggles

 

Healthy relationships have a lot of ups and downs. The reason for that relationship to be so strong is the will of both people and how they tackle their problems rather than ignoring them. 

 

They Don’t Fake How They Feel

 

Some people think that by faking the way they feel or by nodding their heads they’d be doing their relationship a solid, well they’re not. Be yourself, be true to yourself and your partner.

They Don't Pretend To Be Someone They're Not

 

The key to a happy and healthy relationship is to completely expose yourself to your partner, don’t be scared and let them know everything about yourself. Be your true self.

They Don’t Hold Grudges

 

Forgiveness has the highest rewards and we all make mistakes. Forgive their mistakes and let go of the anger, let go of the grudges and move on with them. Move forward with them.

They Don’t Talk When It’s Time To Listen

 

It’s not easy to speak your mind completely, it’s certainly not easy to spill your heart out to someone, but it’s insanely difficult to just listen with an open and willing mind. Happy couples are those who know when to speak and when to listen.

They Don’t Take Everything To Heart

 

People in good and happy relationships know not to take each and every little thing to heart. They know not to let themselves be hurt by everything they hear their partners say.

They Don’t Compare Each Other To Someone Else

 

Comparing your partner to someone else (especially your ex) is the most horrible thing you can do to them. Love them for who they are because they have their own individuality. Comparing your partner to someone else only tells them they aren’t good enough for you the way they are.

They Don’t Lie

 

When trust goes out the window, it can never be rebuilt. Lying and cheating will only lead to bad things. Be yourself and be the most truthful.

They Don’t Rush Their Relationship

 

People often tend to rush their perfectly happy relationships in hopes of a happier tomorrow. Stop rushing things. Spend every single day as if it were the first day of your relationship. Cherish even the smallest of moments and create memories each day as it goes by. Don’t stress about what’s next, just keep at it and continue moving forward with life as it goes.

They Don’t Expect A Magical Solution

 

The key to a healthy and happy relationship is to know when and where you can manage the issue yourself and not to turn to your partner at every sign of trouble. Be supportive and expect support, but learn to support yourself first.

How to impress a woman with your wine knowledge

So, you’re sat at a table in a fancy restaurant. The décor is spot on, the ambiance is great, and the lighting perfect – you’ve chosen well. She looks incredible, you don’t look too bad yourself – you’re exuding confidence. This is already a decent date.

The waiter approaches, dapper in black and white, and leans in to break your flowing repartee. “Would you like to see the wine menu, sir?” he asks politely. You nod assuredly, of course you do – you are so in control right now.

Snatching the leather-bound list, you peel back the cover… and suddenly remember you know sweet FA about wine. Alarm bells start ringing, that confidence drains away like water from a titled plate, and your peacock plume falls limp.

This is your moment to be a real, sophisticated gentleman. It’s scientifically proven that, much like changing a flat tyre, a man that can tell his Merlot from his Zinfandel or his Chardonnay from his Moscato – without coming across as flashy arrogance of time spent holidaying in Tuscany – becomes infinitely more attractive to the opposite sex*. Start umming and ahhing, though, while muttering something about the complex body of a white Malbec from Iceland, and she’ll think you have the manliness of a manikin.

This is one of life’s important skills for every gentleman to tack. She doesn’t expect you to have the know-how and proclivity to claret of Robert Parker (if you don’t know who he is, you definitely need to keep reading), but it’s an erudite string to your bow that will certainly catch her attention. So, gents, while the complexities of wine choice are as deep as the Pacific Ocean, here is a simple and basic guide to getting it right…

(*fact check needed)



MATCH TO FOOD
Wine is subjective, with different grape varieties and regions appealing to different palates. Therefore, look beyond the pricings – they give an indication of quality, but not a science of preference. Instead, settle on either white or red, have a rough idea of what it is your date and you are going to eat, and plan accordingly to pair the two…

Popular white varieties…
Sauvignon Blanc (crisp, light and fruity with sweet notes) >> Seafood, chicken and salads
Chardonnay (unoaked = fruity and fresh, oaked = more complex with slightly more body – don’t be afraid to ask if it isn’t made clear) >> Fish, chicken and pastas
Pinot Grigio (crisp, dry wines with fruity flavours) >> Fish and chicken
Riesling (light, zippy acidity with aromas of fresh apples) >> Fish, seafood and more exotic/spicy dishes

Popular red varieties…
Cabernet Sauvignon (full-bodied with rich currant qualities and pepper notes) >> Red meat and game
Pinot Noir (delicate and fresh, with fruity aromatics) >> Chicken, fish and lamb
Merlot (typical scents include black cherry, plums and herbal flavours. Slightly lighter than Cabernet Sauvignon) >> Pizza, pasta, charcuterie and grilled chicken
Sangiovese (medium-bodied with fresh berry and plum flavours) >> Good with almost anything – especially Italian food
Zinfandel (zesty flavour with berry and pepper) >> Pasta, pizza, and grilled and barbecued meats



VALUE FOR MONEY
“For great value for money,” explains Georgina Collett of Bibendum PLB, “I recommend stepping away from French wine, as you can be easily disappointed for the price. Chile offers an array of lovely, easy-drinking wine, while Italy offers a variety of quirky, indigenous varietals that are fantastic value. Argentina is also extremely popular at the moment.

“The adage of picking the second least expensive wine on the menu is rarely a great move. The restaurants may know this is a common theme, and could take advantage by marking-up the price. If price is a concern, you are actually better off going for their House wine as this is what a restaurant/bar is judged on.

“For trendy wines of the moment, look out for the whites Picpoul de Pinet or Gavi; and for reds, Malbec or Primitivo (aka Zinfandel).”

Alternatively, you can always ask for a wine that is ‘full-bodied’ or ‘light’ (depending on your food choice). This shows your date that you aren’t totally befuddled by oenology, while allowing the trained waitress/waiter to steer you in the right direction.

TASTING
The waiter will re-appear and show you a bottle. This is to ensure it is the exact wine you ordered.
The bottle will then be opened at the table, and a small amount will be poured into your glass. He isn’t expecting you to delve into the tasting notes worthy of a connoisseur, you are merely checking to see if there is anything patently wrong with the wine – in particular, whether it is corked, in which case it will have a dank, musty, wet cardboard aroma and flavour. In the rare event of this happening, you are fully within your right to ask for the bottle to be substituted.

N.B. Contrary to common belief, the phrase ‘corked’ has nothing to do with the bits of cork floating on the surface – it is a term referring to a wine fault characterised by a set of undesirable smells or tastes found in a bottle.

How to Compliment Women Without Being a Skeeze or Catcaller

 
As of today, the woman who made this excellent video about catcalling is getting rape threats.

What is fascinating about this video is not just that she walked around in a crewneck T-shirt, sneakers and jeans, but that she did nothing to provoke these men. Over the course of 10 hours in New York City a woman just existed and got more than 100 advances.

As a guy, I find the lines even more misguided. Did any one of these 100 men think these were winners?

• “Smile! You don’t want to smile?”
• Walks by older men, “Somebody’s acknowledging you for being beautiful! You should say ‘thank you’ more.”
• Don’t even get me started on the guy who walks next to her, step for step, over the course of 5 minutes and says nothing

Most catcallers are like dogs chasing cars. They wouldn’t know what to do with one when they catch one. But it comes from a tradition of prostitution.  Langston Hughes wrote about it while reporting on the Spanish Civil War in his excellent autobiography I Wonder as I Wander:

There is an old Spanish custom taken for granted that a man may whistle or even speak to a pretty girl on the street without offense … Only loose women even turn around to acknowledge such compliments. But with revolutionary zeal, some of the more ardent Loyalists ladies in Spain set out to put an end to what they felt was “intrusive and uncomradely” in the traditional Spanish way of flirting.  Women, they said were workers and citizens just like me, not mere objects of sex, and so should not be subjected to personal remarks from unknown admirers on the public streets.
Which is to say: Catcalling has been out of style since before WWII.

Here is the most important thing to know about dating/life/humanity: “Men’s greatest fear is that women will laugh at them, while women’s greatest fear is that men will kill them.” Margaret Atwood said this.

The worst behavior of all the catcalling is territorial behavior: construction sites, otherwise empty elevators. What are women to do when a group of guys begin hooting at her? Following her down the street?  If she says something they may get angry. This happened recently to The New Yorker’s Sasha Weiss in the subway:

I formulated indignant phrases in my head —“What the hell do you think you’re doing?” “What you’re doing is disgusting”— but the words stuck in my throat like a wad of gum. I worried for my safety: if I confronted him, perhaps I would anger him, and he’d come charging through the turnstile.
There is, however, a way to speak to a woman of any age and still be a gentleman. This is important to teach and be taught because guys who do not have any idea how to talk to women are the idiots in the video.  Here is the method:

1. Body language.  I mean yours. A woman’s first thought when approached by a guy is, “What does he want, and when is he going to go away?”  Your first instinct is going to be to approach with both shoulders and chest facing her. Your first instinct is wrong. Point your body (especially your hips) in another direction. Look over your shoulder, even.
2. The compliment. It should never be remotely sexual. Compliment a woman the way you would compliment a woman of any age. Are you going to go up to somebody’s grandmother and tell her you like how her dress fits?  No. “That’s a great color,” however, works. If you find the need to look both ways in case someone overhears you: shut your mouth.
3. The exit. Now be off with you. If you stand around looking like a bellboy waiting for a tip, you will undo everything you just did.

Lots of self-proclaimed experts on line will tell you to go and approach 100 women. Or neg one of them. See if she can guess a number between 1 and 10. Forget that. If you really want to master this, go out and say nice things to old ladies. When you can speak to a woman as a person, you are ready to be treated like a man. Not a little boy hollering things in the street.

5 Rules of Strong Relationships You must Follow

The point of this article isn’t so much to give relationship advice as it is to show that these pieces of wisdom have actually been studied and confirmed by scientists who dedicate their entire careers to understanding human interaction at its deepest level.

While you may act in accordance with the advice given in this article anyway, you might not realize the incredible effects doing so has had on your relationship. If you read this and you do think “well, duh,” my guess is you’re in a loving and caring relationship that rarely faces any truly rocky moments. On the other hand, if some of this advice is news to you, think about how you can change up your routine to improve what should be one of the most important aspects of your life.

1) Think Positively About Each Other.

Say it with me now: “Well, duh!” You might not need science to tell you that thinking positive thoughts about your significant other is beneficial to your relationship, but you also might not realize how beneficial these positive thoughts are. According to Bianca Acevedo, Ph.D. of the University of California in Santa Barbara, having almost constant positive thoughts of your mate allows you to experience “positive sentiment override.” This is fancy speak for “letting things go.”

When you’re constantly thinking of the great things your significant other brings to your life, you let the things that might annoy you about them fade away. For example, and I’ll be very candid here, my wife sometimes leaves her shoes in the middle of the floor, leaving klutzy me to trip over them once in awhile.

Imagine if my head was full of negative thoughts about her bad habits: I’d constantly harp on the fact that she “always leaves her shoes in the middle of the floor” (even if she doesn’t always do it).

Instead, if I happen to trip over her shoes, I take a step back and remember, for example, that she had a long day the night before, and had kicked off her shoes in frustration over something that happened at work the minute she got home. The fact that she forgot to pick them up pales in comparison to knowing how hard she works every day of her life, so it’s incredibly easy to let something so insignificant fall by the wayside.

2) Show Physical Affection.

Picture a cute little old couple sitting on a park bench holding hands while they enjoy the sunshine. We’ve all seen something similar at one point or another, recognized it as absolutely adorable, and moved on with our lives. But take a minute to realize that this old couple has been holding hands since they were in their 20s or 30s, or even younger! They’ve been holding each other’s hands for over 50 years, and have never once gotten tired of it.

No matter your age, showing physical signs of affection releases oxytocin, which causes a calm to come over your body. It works both ways, in that the giver and receiver of the physical attention benefit from a single action, such as a hug or peck on the cheek.

Of course, no discussion of the benefits of physical affection would be complete without a discussion of sex. Although there is the long-running idea that humans in their 20s are in their sexual prime, there’s also the idea that experience plays a large role in a couple’s sexual satisfaction, and that sex gets better with age. There’s no easier way to say it than “practice makes perfect.” The more sex a couple has together, the more they understand about what each other enjoys, and the better it gets.

3) Communicate Face-to-Face.

We live in a world in which we can spend our entire day at work texting our significant others. You would think the ability to be in constant communication with one another would increase our connectedness, and, well. . . you’d be right, at least in part. However, we should never use texting, email, Skype, or phone calls as a substitute for actual face-to-face communication and conversation.

Couples that have strong communication skills tend to be happier than those whose conversations are artificial and superfluous. They’re able to pick up on a variety of clues related to body language, voice inflection, and facial expression that simply aren’t there when talking on the phone or through text. Not only that, but the conversations had in person tend to be much more meaningful than those had through your smartphone. Lastly, when having a face-to-face conversation with your loved one, your attention is, or at least should be, completely on the conversation at hand. When you’re talking on the phone, you’re more likely to be distracted by other messages and notifications that take away from the authenticity of your interaction.

4) Push Each Other’s Limits.

No, I don’t mean you should annoy each other to your wits’ end! I mean you should always be looking for something new to do as a couple (side note: I’m really glad I included a section between this one and the one about sex, or this entire section could be read as a double entendre!).

Anyways, as a couple, you should always be willing to do something you normally wouldn’t do if not for your significant other. I have no qualms admitting that I enjoy going to art galleries and street fairs, as long as my wife is by my side. And she would never have found herself at a Yankee game in the dead heat of July, but together we’ve had some memorable moments at the Stadium over the years. Having a loved one to experience life with is incentive to actively go out and expand your comfort zone. Instead of waiting around for something amazing to happen to you, go out and experience everything you possibly can. Whether you enjoy yourself or not, you at least create a new memory to share with the person you love (often the funniest stories, in retrospect, are the worst experiences when they’re actually happening).

5) Have A Life Of Your Own — Together

Even married couples who have devoted their lives to one another live with the understanding that they are still separate people with separate hopes and dreams. A relationship may be made of two people who have joined together, but that doesn’t mean each party should live every single moment of their lives for the other person. And they shouldn’t expect it from their significant other, either.

When you enter into a relationship, you’ll most likely make some sacrifices that will be the difference between the person you were and the person you want to become. This doesn’t mean you have to give up your entire identity, though. In fact, if your significant other mandates that you completely overhaul your entire life, you’re almost certainly in an abusive or otherwise detrimental relationship. Though you both should feel the need to grow together, you should both also have the freedom to grow individually as well.

Having passion for life outside of your relationship can actually strengthen your relationship in a variety of ways. You’ll share more experiences (as previously discussed), you’ll be able to support your significant other in enjoyable ways, and you won’t become too overbearing or reliant on your mate. Most importantly, the more you love yourself, the more love you’ll be able to give. By living every moment of your own life passionately, you ensure that you maintain a passion for your relationship as well.

How to Use Sexy and Powerful Eye Contact to Get Girls

You do not necessarily need to be rich and handsome to get the attention of girls.
Never underestimate the power of your eyes. 

When used well, your eyes can seductively lure girls and entrap them in your love web.
There are a number of ways with which you can use your eyes to attract and get girls. 

Basic Tips on How to Use Powerful and Sexy Eye Contact to Get Girls

Using powerful, sexy eye contact will allow you to attract and seduce women much more easier.
Women like it when a man concentrates on them. 

By staring deeply into a woman’s eyes, you are subtly communicating your attraction and concentration on her. This is a killer step, if you repeatedly do this to the wome n you meet , chances are that she will begin to enjoy this attention and will in turn reciprocate your actions.

These long deep stares do not ONLY tell girls that you find them attractive. They ALSO speak volumes about your personality and how confident that you are. Only confident men are able to look beautiful women directly in the eyes and NOT look down. 

Most girls are attracted to men attributed with self confidence. They in turn interpret eye contact as an act of self confidence. 

As much as a powerful eye contact has overwhelming advantages when it comes to getting girls, be careful not to overdo it. Always ensure that whenever you stare deep into a girls eyes that you have a hint of a smile on your face as well.

Your stare should also be gentle and loving but NOT intimidating. An intimidating stare will cause most women to run away in the opposite direction.   

The advantage of a powerful and sexy eye contact lies in the fact that it can be used whether or not you actually know the girl. A lingering stare accompanied by a sexy wink towards a cute girl will catch her by surprise and she will want to know more about “this daring guy”. 

When you are  having a conversation with a girl who you already know, when you are looking into her eyes, be sure to smile. You can occasionally break the intensity of your gaze by lowering your gaze to the area between her eyes just for a few seconds then gently stare back into her eyes. 
Shy men are also encouraged to stare at women in between their eyes. You can take this opportunity to dilate your pupils. Dilated pupils express a burning desire. Girls like it when they know they are the object of your desire and they positively respond to such looks.

Aside from using sexy eye contact to get girls, use the up down look. When you give a woman an up and down look, you are not only telling her that you appreciate what you see but ALSO that you would like to know and learn more about what you see.

The eye speaks volume about your inner emotions. Whenever you stare at a woman, ensure that all your emotions are conveyed to her through your eyes. This way, you can ensure that your eye contact will get you the girls you want.

But there’s one more secret on how to use sexy and powerful eye contact to get girls that most people never talk about…

How to Create Instant Attraction in a Girl Using Sexy and Powerful Eye Contact
What if I told you that there was a secret to instantly improving your opening percentage rate with the women you meet?

Meaning using this ONE secret eye contact tip will allow you to attract women before you even open your mouth and speak to them.

Doing this does so many powerful things for you:

• It allows you to establish sexual tension by creating an air of suspense and getting her complete attention
• When a girl looks at you FIRST before you begin speaking to her, she is much more likely to be actively listening to what you are saying and she has less chances of being distracted
• Making eye contact with a girl before you begin talking to her comes across as more smooth, natural, and charming.

If you want to be able to develop the ability to use sexy eye contact to attract and seduce girls, then focus heavily on establishing eye contact with women before you begin talking to them. It’s so crucial.
When you are able to use your eyes to communicate with women (and flirt with them too) you come across as very powerful. Women will know and sense that you are rare because you are able to do something to them (make them feel aroused and horny) with just your eyes that most men can’t.
Begin working on using the power of your eyes to get girls attracted to you and watch your success rate with women double overnight.